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'缅北强奸鈥檚 greatest strength is its people': International student Aamyneh Mecklai on the thrill of being on campus

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An international student in her third year at Rotman Commerce, Aamyneh Mecklai was deeply involved in extra-curricular activities during her first two years at 缅北强奸 鈥 even while studying remotely (photo courtesy of Aamyneh Mecklai)

Aamyneh Mecklai鈥檚 transition to student life at the University of Toronto was anything but straightforward, but she says she wouldn鈥檛 have it any other way. 

Originally from Mumbai, India, Mecklai was accepted to 缅北强奸 in 2020 with a . But the elation of receiving the university鈥檚 soon gave way to the reality that she wouldn鈥檛 be able to move to Toronto due to the pandemic 鈥 and would have to complete her first semester remotely from halfway around the world. 

Mecklai finally arrived in Toronto in time for the winter 2021 term 鈥 on a freezing January day, no less. She then headed straight to two weeks of quarantine and a delayed return to in-person classes, as the university responded to the Omicron variant. 

Now in her third year at Rotman Commerce 鈥 at a time when 缅北强奸鈥檚 three campuses are once again brimming with activity and excitement 鈥 Mecklai says the journey has made her all the more appreciative of the joys of campus life and better equipped to tackle its challenges.

鈥淲hen I finally came to 缅北强奸, I felt like I was much stronger and much more independent,鈥 she says. 鈥淚 had so much to look forward to, there were so many people to meet and so many things I could now do in-person.

鈥淚t was definitely a little challenging at times, but I鈥檓 in love with 缅北强奸 and Toronto. Looking back, I don鈥檛 think I would have it any other way.鈥

Aamyneh Mecklai kayaking in Toronto's harbour (photo courtesy of Aamyneh Mecklai)

Mecklai was one of thousands of students around the world who couldn鈥檛 begin their post-secondary experience in person due to the pandemic. Her best friend, who was accepted into a college in New York, was also affected 鈥 so the duo decided to make the most of their shared predicament by moving into a Mumbai apartment together.

鈥淲e had a pseudo-college experience and learned to live alone, cook, take care of our apartment and each other, and balance academics alongside,鈥 Mecklai says. 鈥淚t was a really interesting experience and, in retrospect, a beautiful transition to college.鈥

In addition to getting a taste of independent living, Mecklai also wasted no time getting involved in an array of extra-curricular activities at 缅北强奸. She joined an online dance organization, wrote for the Varsity and the Trinity Times, and participated in several clubs and leadership platforms that catered to her interests in activism, education access and girls鈥 rights 鈥 including Trinity Women in Leadership and the 缅北强奸 chapter of , a leadership development initiative launched by the United Nations Foundation.

鈥淎lthough I was studying remotely, I had access to incredible resources at 缅北强奸 and was able to express myself, albeit online,鈥 says Mecklai, an aspiring social entrepreneur and lawyer.

Trinity College, in particular, served as a rich network for Mecklai to find likeminded people.

Through the college, Mecklai connected with student-activists and , who run the non-profit . Mecklai helped them launch a student-led digital advocacy tool called Feminae Carta, which provides resources to young and inspiring advocates, and is backed by organizations including the UN Girls鈥 Education Initiative (UNGEI), Malala Fund and Disney. She has since about Feminae Carta, and .

Nivaal (L) and Maryam Rehman run the non-profit MNR Foundation (photo courtesy of McKinley Tretler for Malala Fund)

鈥淲hat was so incredible is that I had access to all of this before I even physically arrived in Toronto,鈥 Mecklai says. 鈥溍灞鼻考殁檚 greatest strength is its people 鈥 you just need to reach for it.鈥

Of course, connecting with people exclusively over Zoom and phone calls wasn鈥檛 always smooth sailing. 鈥淚nitially, it was a bit jarring because you don鈥檛 know how connected you鈥檒l feel to other people and there can be some awkward moments, but it was just about persisting through it 鈥 and knowing that when you come to 缅北强奸, there will be so many opportunities to meet and connect with people. So, there was always so much to look forward to.鈥

Mecklai finally arrived in Toronto in January 2021 鈥 鈥淚 certainly didn鈥檛 know what -18 C felt like,鈥 she recalls 鈥 and completed two weeks of quarantine at the CampusOne residence building before moving into her current digs at Trinity College.

Aamyneh Mecklai with her friend Tazriaan Islam outside Trinity College in winter (photo courtesy of Aamyneh Mecklai)

While the large class sizes and sheer numbers of people on campus may have seemed daunting at first, Mecklai says she鈥檚 come to see it as one of 缅北强奸鈥檚 best attributes.

鈥淭hat鈥檚 the beauty of 缅北强奸 鈥 it gives you so much choice and diversity in being able to pick and gravitate towards your people,鈥 she says. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e always going to be spoiled for choice, whether it鈥檚 extra-curricularly, academically or professors you want to engage with.鈥

Mecklai emphasizes the extra-curricular aspect, which she says is her favourite part of the university experience.

鈥淭o be very honest, academics for me is something I do like to work on, but I think I鈥檓 really driven by things I do outside the classroom and side projects,鈥 she says.

To that end, Mecklai has worked to create links between her schoolwork and outside interests. She's currently involved in a research project with Professor Karen Mundy of the Ontario Institute for Studies in Education that explores India's Right to Education Act in the context of rural communities 鈥 specifically, how skills like communication and expression can be better incorporated into education. It鈥檚 a subject that鈥檚 directly inspired by Mecklai鈥檚 efforts as the founder of , a non-profit that teaches conversational English and public speaking skills to over 1500 students across rural and urban India, with plans to scale to Pakistan and Kenya.

For Mecklai, the Pearson Scholarship has been a crucial source of both financial support and community. 鈥淭he Pearson Scholarship is one of the greatest gifts I think I'll ever receive," she said. "Of course, it has some incredible financial benefits and covers tuition, residence, etc. for all four years 鈥 but what stands out to me are the cohorts of students that hail from different parts of the world, study different disciplines and still feel fiercely united ... we are all in pursuit of a better tomorrow."

Mecklai says she hopes to contribute to that better tomorrow via a career path that involves combining a private-sector efficiency with a public sector-driven vision, specifically in the context of access to education. 鈥淎s a Rotman Commerce student, I鈥檓 still equipping myself with the toolkit I need in order to create and understand private-public partnerships, to further scale an initiative like Speak to Lead 鈥 and, importantly, to not be afraid to try new things.

"I do think grad school鈥檚 on the cards. However, at this point, I鈥檓 very open to new experiences and I think it鈥檚 becoming clearer with every year that I want my work to be impact-driven.鈥

Aamyneh Mecklai says good-bye to her mother, left, and other members of her family in India (photo courtesy of Aamyneh Mecklai)

For the time being, though, she's squarely focused on savoring the second half of her undergraduate experience 鈥 and spending as much time as possible at her most beloved St. George campus locations. 鈥淢y favourite spot on campus is St. Hilda鈥檚 College Rigby Room [in Trinity College]. You鈥檒l find me trying to sight-read music by the piano. It鈥檚 one of the most beautiful rooms I鈥檝e seen and sitting by the piano makes me feel at home,鈥 she says.

鈥淪omething else I鈥檓 really looking forward to is running to The Buttery with my friends to grab a coffee in between classes. The Buttery is one spot where we鈥檒l attempt to study, hang out and eat food all at once. Sitting there with my friends makes me feel most like an undergraduate student, a feeling that I鈥檓 learning to truly relish and be grateful for.鈥

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